When a Chinese auntie met the right uncle (opens original article in a new tab)

A university official recounts her dating journey in London after facing judgment in China's marriage market, leading her to find a compatible partner who appreciates her unique identity.

• Shzr Ee Tan, a university official, describes her experience using dating apps in London after being judged in China's marriage market.
• She found a Jewish man on Tinder who accepted her 'auntieness' and shared a mutual understanding of feeling like an outsider.
• The man initially mistook her for American due to her accent, which she uses to avoid class distinctions in Britain.