‘I only want a part-time relationship. Can I put my kids through a second marriage break-up?’ (opens original article in a new tab)

A woman in a troubled second marriage questions whether to separate, fearing the impact on her children and struggling with her attraction to her controlling husband.

• The writer is in a second marriage that is not working and is considering separation.
• The children are becoming secretive and quiet, affecting their well-being.
• The writer is conflicted about leaving due to physical attraction and fear of another breakup.